About feelings

I believe that when we are blocking some feelings we are not only blocking "anger" or "fear" - we put some block to the level on which we are able to experience any feelings at all. If we can't let ourselves be too angry - we can't also be too joyful !

It is like a music volume - whatever volume you choose to play jazz, with the same one you will listen to the classics.

Two ways

It is so obvious when somebody told that, and it is so often so hard to understand when you are inside the situation ...


There is one amazing quotation which I would love to share with you today. I think it is really important ...


"If you knew that hope and despair were paths to the same destination, which would you choose?"

Robert Brault

Are we real ?

You know … sometimes … Life just bursts in to us … Yes, we all are great ! We all are somebody. We are mothers, fathers, partners, coaches, clients, friends, we are brave or scared, we are busy or lazy, we all read books, grow, develop our skills …

We … but suddenly … like a fresh winter wind – something out from the blue … A song, a friend, a sunlight …

And you think – what is real here ? Where am I ? Here, reading another fearless self-help book ? There, on a cold and crazy ride ?

Who we are ? How real we are ? Well, all our beliefs and fears are just thoughts … We are just thoughts ?

Or – our thoughts are we, but we are not our thoughts ?

Where are we ? …..

Support needed

We all need it. Sooner or later, more or less, but we all do need support. Friends, family, dog, colleagues, classmates, now – money, attention, chat, food, hand, shoulder, book, time, whoever and whatever – support is essential.

Well, yes, some time some of us can rely only on ourselves, and actually we are come into this world and we leave it all by ourselves … Mostly … At least at some point … You see, I’m already not that sure even in this one. So what I am becoming more and more sure about is – we need support.

But how much of support do we actually need ? I mean, how do we depend from support ?

Well, it is more or less obvious regarding some practical stuff – like getting technical support with your computer or TV, or getting donations or whatever it is.

But what about support for our soul ? Our comfort support, support of our motivation ?

You know, I’m often have a need (or I think so) to talk to somebody – to share my hesitations on forum or to call to somebody – just to get supported, to ask what can I do when hesitating, to …

And I think – well, I can do that. And what will be the answer ? I know the answer. I can follow the line and I can get whenever I need to be – even without a real practical support – just having this option – to ASK for support.

Just having those places where I know people will share their love and knowledge with me, just knowing that there are somewhere somebody who knows when I think I don’t and that I can reach him and talk to him – or to them …

Those powerful places and people are important for us. For those of us who just need – really need – to talk and share and get. And for those who just need to have this option …

Support cost us nothing and it is priceless.

Support cares, motivates, inspire, revive … Support is vital.



You know … I have a dream. A dream to create such a supportive place here – at Wisteria House. And to do that – I need your support.



Loving you, wishing you all the best,



Your Autumn Bee.

Name changing !

I don't want to be a Declutter Bee any more ! Don't actually like the clutter part. Even though it is right - it is all still mostly around the clutter in our houses, lives and minds, but ... I would love to choose something more positive.

How about Sunflower Bee ?

It is just a name. The good new are - it is in our power to change it !

Love, your Autumn Sunflower Bee.

Hurraaaaaaaaaaaaaaay !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wake Up Now project has just started today !!! I DID IT !!! I am so excited an part of mine just can't believe that ... That I did it, and I love it, and I ...

I am so GRATEFUL to all of you who have contributed to this feeling, to this program to be started !!!

I just I just love you. And wish you all the best !

Your Bee

Are you up for a challenge ?

It is more than a half way through the summer school holidays ... I don't know how about you, but I think it is a good time to do something useful and exciting ! So - would you like to join me for a NON-COMPLAINT week ?

Some more details are here.

http://www.declutterbee.co.uk/content/turning-complaint-task


Let us have some fun !!!